Life's transitions—chosen or not—have a way of pulling us away from what feels steady. I help you create the space to pause, reflect, and reconnect to the part of you that already knows who you are. From that place, change becomes intentional instead of reactive.
A calm, structured conversation—no pressure, just clarity.
When everything feels tangled, coaching cuts through to what actually matters — and gives you permission to set the rest down.
Not just out of where you are, but toward where you actually want to be. With a path that's yours — not someone else's idea of what should come next.
The person best equipped to navigate your life is you. Coaching helps you remember — and believe — that.
"The goal isn't a better plan. It's a better relationship with yourself."
The Coacherie
A consistent relationship over weeks and months. Regular sessions, steady momentum, and a space that's entirely yours — to think, process, and grow into the next version of yourself.
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Not everyone needs a long-term commitment to start. Whether you're in a moment of transition or just need a steady place to think, this is a space that meets you exactly where you are. No agenda but yours.
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Bring the thing you've been circling — the decision, the pivot, the question that won't quiet down. Half a day together. Full presence. You leave with clarity, not just conversation — and something to act on right away.
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Hi there. I'm Nicole, a queer mom of two, a coach in training, and someone who is very much in the middle of her own becoming.
I know what it feels like to look at your life and not quite recognize it. To have built something real and good and still feel like you've lost the thread back to yourself. To be navigating a world that doesn't always feel safe, trying to figure out not just where you're going, but where you belong, and who gets to come with you.
That's the work I'm in right now. And it's the work I do with my clients.
I'm currently completing my coaching certification through the University of Oregon's Empower program, an ICF-accredited, neuroscience-informed training that grounds my practice in how identity, change, and meaning-making actually work in the brain and body. Not just what sounds good. What's true.
The Coacherie exists because I want to create a space that doesn't ask you to perform wellness, doesn't just hand you a generic roadmap, and doesn't treat you like a problem to solve. A space that just makes room for you to be honest about where you are and curious about where you're going.
I work with women and queer people who are in transition—relocating, reckoning, reinventing, or simply waking up one day and realizing the person they've been performing isn't the person they actually are. My clients don't come to me broken. They come to me ready — even if they don't know it yet.
My approach is grounded, unhurried, and deeply honest. We don't rush to silver linings. We don't reframe before we've actually felt it. We get quiet enough to hear what's true, and then we figure out what to do with that.
Because you don't need to be fixed.
You need to be known.
Come as you are. Leave as who you're becoming.
Whether you're ready to start or just want to learn more, this is the place. A discovery call is always free — no pressure, no pitch.
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